![]() No one has to give you permission to be strong. Regardless of what anyone else thinks, regardless of whether you use it or not, you know it to be true.įinding your superpower helps you see that no one else can make you powerful. Rather, it’s a power that comes from within you. Nor is it a power that makes you better than others. Your superpower isn’t bestowed on you by some outside source. You don’t need anyone else to validate you or recognize you as having a talent. But we think, ‘Oh, that’s not anything, because I didn’t have to work for it.'” Other people are like, ‘Wow, you can do that!’ Or they seek you out for it. “It comes so easy to us that we minimize it. “Our superpower is like our gift,” Suzette explains. It’s something that makes your heart sing. Your superpower isn’t your ability to meet everyone’s needs or make everyone happy. Yet those questions will lead you to your superpower. ‘Who are you?’ and ‘What do you want?’ Those two questions are very difficult for high-performing women.” If you want true intimacy, you’ve got to stop performing and simply be.īut who are you, without the performance and trying to be everything to everybody? He’s loving the performance you’re putting on for him. When you have to keep proving yourself worthy of your man’s love, then he’s not loving the real you. ![]() “When we try to perform,” Suzette says, “we attract men who are drawn to performance, who want their egos stroked, who want you to be their trophy, who want you to cook and clean, who will judge you by your performance. “We’ve been rated and judged by our ability to perform.”Īnd we take that attitude into relationships. “We are in a culture where performance is king,” Suzette explains. When you have music-the visioning-and math-the processing-working in collaboration, you have great love. When what you do serves your vision of who you are. Eventually that’s going to catch up with us … and where it really catches up with us is in our relationships.”Ī great life happens when the “math” serves the music. When we don’t know who we really are … then we’re working that math. They’re so good at performing and being what everyone else wants that they lose sight of who they really are and what they really want. Many high-performing women end up in that trap. It’s all about what you can do rather than who you are. ![]() When you don’t listen to your music, you end up hopping on the hamster wheel of performance. It wasn’t until much later that she realized that music stood for much more than the ability to carry a tune. She thought her talent was nothing special. Suzette Vearnon discovered her superpower at a young age. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re really here and what you really want, this YBTV interview is for you.ĭiscover Suzette Vearnon and The Enough Factor What You’ll Learn Life coach Suzette Vearnon excels in helping strong, successful women find the music that brings ease and joy to their lives. ![]() You may think you’re ordinary … but did you know you have a superpower? ![]()
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